A Christmas Message

Lee Davis • December 23, 2025

Christmas, 2025

Beloved friends in Christ,


As Christmas draws near, I’m mindful that this season comes to us every year—and yet it lands differently each time. Some of us are walking into Christmas with joy. Some are carrying grief. Some are grateful for new beginnings. Others are simply doing their best to get through the days in front of them.


And for many, it’s been a hard season.


The weight people are carrying is real: the pressure of rising costs, health concerns, strained relationships, uncertain work, worry about loved ones, and the anxiety that comes from watching our world feel so unsettled. Even the holidays can intensify what’s already there—especially what’s missing.


So if you’re coming to Christmas with mixed feelings—joy and sadness, gratitude and stress, faith and questions—you’re not alone. There is nothing unusual about that. It’s part of being human.


This is one reason the Christmas story matters so much. God did not wait for everything to be calm or resolved before coming near. Jesus is born into a world that is complicated, into a family that is vulnerable, into circumstances that are far from ideal. Christmas does not pretend life is easy. It tells us God chooses to meet us in the middle of it.


Emmanuel—God with us.


Not God with us once we’ve fixed everything. Not God with us once the grief is gone, the bills are paid, the diagnosis changes, or the fear settles down. God with us now—present, steady, and faithful.


Sometimes God’s work begins in ways that don’t look impressive. A child. A manger. Ordinary people. A simple promise spoken over them: “Do not be afraid.” That is still the word of Christmas. And it is still true.


So here is my prayer for you this Christmas: that you would feel no pressure to force cheer or to carry the season on your own. That you would receive what God actually offers—grace. That you would find moments of peace, even if life remains busy. That you would know you are held by God, and cared for by this community.


If this year has worn you down, please hear this plainly: you don’t have to carry it alone. The Church is not a place for the “already fine.” It is a place for real people who need real mercy. Wherever you find yourself right now—steady or struggling, hopeful or exhausted—you belong here. And you are prayed for.


On behalf of our clergy and staff, thank you for the ways you love, serve, give, and show up for one another. Your faithfulness matters more than you know. Through your kindness, your perseverance, your generosity, and your prayers, Christ is present in this world.


May the peace of Christ guard your heart.
May joy find you, even in small ways.
And may the love of God meet you right where you are—and carry you forward.


Merry Christmas, and blessed Christmas to you and those you love.


With love in Christ,

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